@FediTips
They were my first instance and honestly, if I had stayed there, I probably would have left Mastodon completely. The people there were not nice to new comers at all. Shaming or demanding I follow "the rules" which are very confusing to someone new. So many reply guys and nitpicking it felt like a softer version of Twitter. After seeing a similar post of yours, I migrated elsewhere and it was a much nicer experience.