Beitrag von @cwebber@social.coop * hhmx.de

Christine Lemmer-Webber
@cwebber@social.coop

· Föderation EN Di 15.07.2025 15:39:55

The instance I am on only supports 4 options, so here are two more polls

29% Ace spec, into FOSS
2% Ace spec, not into FOSS
64% Not ace spec, into FOSS
4% Not ace spec, not into FOSS

382 Stimmabgaben, geschlossen

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Christine Lemmer-Webber
@cwebber@social.coop

Föderation EN Di 15.07.2025 15:41:21

Last poll, ace spec + queer questions

27% Ace spec, queer
4% Ace spec, not queer
46% Not ace spec, queer
23% Not ace spec, not queer

340 Stimmabgaben, geschlossen

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Christine Lemmer-Webber
@cwebber@social.coop

Föderation EN Di 15.07.2025 15:50:17

And FINALLY, one more poll about queer + polyamorous

38% Queer, polyamorous
26% Queer, not polyamorous
7% Not queer, polyamorous
29% Not queer, not polyamorous

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Mattaob
@Mattaob@mastodon.social

Föderation NB Di 15.07.2025 16:18:36

@cwebber i dont even know what half of these words mean 😂

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Log 🪵
@log@mastodon.sdf.org

Föderation NB Di 15.07.2025 20:57:00

@Mattaob @cwebber
Glossary:
Mono- = one
Poly- = many
-gamy = female mate (may be used metonymically with respect to number of mates in a sexual relationship without regard to sexes)
-andry = male mate (used rarely to to -gamy metonymy)
-amory = mate of unspecified sex
FOSS = Free and Open Source Software
queer = non-heterosexual sexuality, or gender is neither cisgendered male nor cisgendered female
ace spec = asexuality spectrum, considers oneself to be more asexual than sexual

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Log 🪵
@log@mastodon.sdf.org

Föderation NB Di 15.07.2025 21:00:38

@Mattaob @cwebber Ace spec has further refinements, such as romanticity, that are not mentioned in the polling.

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Christine Lemmer-Webber
@cwebber@social.coop

Föderation NB Di 15.07.2025 21:02:42

@log @Mattaob Yeah I kept it very broad because, as said, only have four options on here. But "ace spec", just like "queer spec", has a lot of depth to it!

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[Ljava.lang.Klara;@42
@boo_@im-in.space

Föderation EN Mi 16.07.2025 17:05:43

@log @Mattaob @cwebber

All correct here except for -gamy, which comes from Greek gamos (γαμος) meaning marriage. You were probably thinking of -gyny, as in polygyny, contrasted with polyandry, which comes from Greek gyne (γυνη) meaning woman.

(This might be super nerdy but I love Greek and couldn't help myself :ablobcatheartsqueeze: )

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Log 🪵
@log@mastodon.sdf.org

Föderation EN Mi 16.07.2025 17:17:57

@boo_ @Mattaob @cwebber Yes! I stand corrected. I was doing this from memory, which is obviously not infallible.

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cy
@cy@fedicy.us.to

Föderation · Mi 16.07.2025 18:15:35

It's understandable considering humans are sexist pigs, so almost all polygamy is polygyny.

... #shitpost

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Christine Lemmer-Webber
@cwebber@social.coop

Föderation EN Mi 16.07.2025 20:27:14

@cy @log @boo_ @Mattaob That's an old sexist assumption. As of 2012, more poly people appeared to be women than men (and several other studies I have seen since) https://www.advocate.com/current-issue/2016/1/08/polyamory-numbers

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cy
@cy@fedicy.us.to

Föderation · Mi 16.07.2025 21:27:47

That's polyamory, not polygamy.

CC: @log@mastodon.sdf.org

... #still #shitposting

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Christine Lemmer-Webber
@cwebber@social.coop

Föderation EN Mi 16.07.2025 21:28:23

@cy @log oh! I misread your post

Carry on then

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John Francis 🦫🇨🇦🍁💪⬆️
@johnefrancis@cosocial.ca

Föderation EN Di 15.07.2025 20:42:50

@cwebber what about the furry/sysadmin axes?

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Christine Lemmer-Webber
@cwebber@social.coop

Föderation EN Di 15.07.2025 20:45:11

@johnefrancis I have made enough polls!!! make your own poll! ;)

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Softwarewolf
@faoluin@chitter.xyz

Föderation EN Di 15.07.2025 16:00:51

@cwebber Always hard to choose whether I'm "queer" or not when I'm ace spectrum with a heteroromantic lean. >.>

But regardless, into FOSS!

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Rachel Wil Singh ~ Moos-a-dee
@Moosader@mastodon.gamedev.place

Föderation EN Di 15.07.2025 15:42:06

@cwebber it's me, my sex drive was swapped with a drive to program at birth. Good thing I discovered programming at 10, has worked out relatively well. 😅

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Kierkegaanks regretfully
@Kierkegaanks@beige.party

Föderation EN Di 15.07.2025 15:57:21

@cwebber
Apologies

0% On fedi, into foss
0% Into foss, on fedi

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Simon Walters
@cymplecy@fosstodon.org

Föderation EN Di 15.07.2025 18:40:26

@cwebber I don't understand the questions

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