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Jon Tan

· Föderation EN Mi 03.07.2024 11:01:25

@ramsey I agree with you. It was worrying to me when my sons told me that blocking people was perceived as either aggressive, or an L (lose) and admission of defeat in their teenage world.

They thought they had to take the abuse they should be blocking, or block and be harassed for an explanation elsewhere, and ultimately abused elsewhere, too.

It took some effort to convince them that blocking people is a self-empowering move that requires no explanation if they so decide.

Larry Garfield

Föderation EN Mi 03.07.2024 15:53:52

@jontan @ramsey "If you can't stand the bullying, it means the bully wins" is what bullies tell their victims. It's gaslighting, pure and simple.